My Aunt was visiting recently for a few weeks. She recently lost her husband and has decided to move closer to family, closer to me and my Mom (her sister). She has the overwhelming task of cleaning out her home she shared with her husband for over 40 years. According to my aunt, my uncle loved to save things. In her words, “he was the product of the depression and because of that, he couldn’t throw anything away.”
Over drinks the night before she left, we went over her options. She could get an estate sale company to come in and do it for her. They do take a large percentage. But, this way, she wouldn’t have to work at it alone. I told her, if she goes this way, she should get a really nice hotel room for the weekend and get a massage and facial. Things I know will make her feel better while fighting the idea of moving on and selling things that are a part of her life.
The other idea is to ask neighbors and friends to help her with a garage sale or yard sale. She said she did have a neighbor that knew a lot about tools. She has an entire shed of tools that she doesn’t know what they are or what she should sell them for. We discussed having him be in charge of selling them for her the day of the sale.
Also, I advised her to call a local church and ask if there was a youth group available for community service work. They could help her get ready, move furniture, sell, and watch for stealing throughout the sale.
My Aunt seemed completely overwhelmed with the thought of having to go through her life with my Uncle and decide how to handle it in order for her to move forward. My heart goes out to her and her upcoming tasks. Selfishly, I am looking forward to having her close by and spending time with her.
Kate


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